Showing posts with label cheaters. Show all posts
Showing posts with label cheaters. Show all posts

March 17, 2013

Indianapolis, Indiana Cheating Spouse/Infidelity Investigators

It's an unfortunate fact of life that people sometimes stray from their marriage. If you're reading this page, you probably never thought it could happen to you. But it has. Or at least you suspect it has and you need to know. Below is what to expect should our agency be hired.


 DO YOU THINK MY SPOUSE IS CHEATING?
  
If you're asking this question, there may already be a problem. We catch the suspected spouse cheating on over 90% of the cases that we take. Is this because cheating is rampant? No.  It's because by the time someone is ready to hire a private investigator, they often already have deep-seated suspicions or they have indirect knowledge and are looking for independent corroboration.


WHAT ARE THE SIGNS OF A CHEATING SPOUSE?

Signs of a cheating spouse can be found all over the internet.  Here are our own, based solely on first hand experience with these types of investigations.
  1. The cheating spouse's cell phone records almost always indicate there is a problem. In the case of a male cheating, his credit card statements can also indicate a problem.
  2. The marriage is in trouble before the suspicions of an affair came up. Simply put, happy, communicative marriages do not produce affairs - unhappy or "flat" ones do.
  3. The cheating spouse has windows of time when he/she is unaccounted for.  Phone calls are not answered during this time and a later explanation of where they were is self-authenticating.
  4. The cheating spouse has a prior history of infidelity. We often see that "years ago" there was a problem that was resolved.
  5. The cheating spouse has a public "friendship" with a member of the opposite sex. They admit to being "good friends" and make no effort to hide the relationship. This way, if spotted together, they have a cover story. In reality, the relationship is sexual and often emotional, as well.
  6. There has been a "tip" from a friend, acquaintance or family member indicating that an inappropriate relationship is occurring.

HOW MUCH TIME WILL BE REQUIRED FOR THE INVESTIGATION?

The amount of time required is based on several variables including -
  1.  How often does the cheating occur?  If it's just once a month, that will be harder to detect than if it is several times a week.
  2.  How often is the investigator out?  Obviously, if we're not conducting the surveillance when the cheating occurs, we won't see it.
  3. How much proof does our client require?  It is very common that after we catch a spouse cheating, the client wants us to document a pattern by continuing the surveillance. As a general rule of thumb, we advise at least five separate periods of surveillance at different times on different days to get a feel for what is happening. Almost never is a cheating spouse caught on the first night of an investigation - patience is required. 


HOW WILL I KNOW IF MY SPOUSE IS NOT CHEATING?

Proving a negative is sometimes difficult and based on opinion, not fact. Generally, if the suspected spouse has been followed several times, has had the opportunity to cheat during this time and did not, we would advise our client that there is no evidence of cheating.

  
WHAT IS THE PROCESS?

It starts with a phone call where your matter is discussed in brief with our investigator. We can discuss what the investigation would entail in terms of time and expense after getting some basic facts. When a plan is agreed upon, we would require a signed contract as well as a retainer to fund the investigation.


WHAT IS YOUR SUCCESS RATE?

If you define success as whether we catch the spouse cheating or we clear him or her, our success rate in the past year was 100%. We never had a case during this time where we failed to determine what was really going on. As stated above, the percentage of time when the person is caught cheating is extremely high - well over 90%.


IS THE INVESTIGATION CONFIDENTIAL?

Under Indiana and Ohio law, our investigations are required to be 100% confidential. We will be completely discreet with your situation and provide you with clear, fact-based reports on exactly what is seen during our surveillance. To the extent that video or photographs can be discreetly obtained, we will provide these as well.


WHAT ARE THE COSTS?

The costs involved vary because every investigation varies.  Every client and their specific situation is different.  After a free initial consultation, we are able to provide our clients with an estimated cost to find the answers that they seek.


Frontline Investigations & Surveillance is a licensed investigation agency who specializes in infidelity investigations throughout Indiana and Ohio.  Contact us to discuss your situation in detail.

November 5, 2010

Cheating Spouse Quiz - Indianapolis & Cincinnati Private Investigators

Sometimes people in a marriage deliberately refuse to face the truth, especially if they are getting mixed signals that their spouses are cheating. People act a certain way, and show some degree of guilt when they have been doing something they are not supposed to be doing. If you are still iffy about the secretiveness and the sudden change your spouse's lifestyle patterns and overall attitude, take the ultimate five-point cheating spouse quiz.

A - Always   B - Sometimes   C - Rarely   D - Never

  1. Does he or she change clothes often and is suddenly obsessed about physical appearance?
  2. Does he or she become overly secretive and defensive over credit card, phone bills, wallets, phones and underwear drawers?
  3. Has he or she been spending more time at the office, saying he is working late or having late client dinners?
  4. Has your once sizzling sex life been reduced to cold, mechanical sex that occurs once in a blue moon?
  5. Does he or she become overly possessive, accusatory and picks fights out of impulse and then storms out of the house?

If you have answered mostly A and B, you are living with a cheater. Observe your spouse's hygiene habits carefully. They may be wearing the cologne/perfume you gave them before they leave for work in the morning, then come home smelling of something completely different. Cheating spouses hide away bills that contain information such as frequently dialed numbers, or credit card bills that reveal gifts, dinner dates and hotel bills you did not even know about. Guilty spouses hide away fancy lingerie or underwear (that they don't normally wear), and condoms (which they do not normally use with you).

Why has he or she been staying up late to work, when you discover from his or her colleagues that they have not? If your spouse is cheating on you, they will most likely not want to have sex with you, out of guilt that they may be being unfaithful to their significant others. Cheating spouses become accusatory and question your faithfulness to them out of subconscious guilt. (They are doing it, so they know you could be doing it too.) Also, they deliberately make a fuss out of anything and everything so they can have an excuse to get out of the house to talk to or see their significant other.

Although this cheating spouse quiz works 99% of the time, it is still a good idea to confront your spouse non-judgmentally, and if it is still denial, you will have to resort to more definitive measures to catch him or her off guard, such as hiring an private investigator.
Did you take this cheating spouse quiz and realize you might be living with a cheater? The best thing you can do right now is get evidence and proof before you confront your spouse. Here is what you need to do today - contact our agency and schedule a free consultation with one of our investigators.

Frontline Investigations & Surveillance LLC is a licensed private investigation agency serving clients throughout Indiana and Ohio.  We specialize in domestic infidelity cases and provide our clients the answers they deserve.  "The Truth Begins Here".